Hi New Orleans lady,
I just stumbled upon this thread and I felt the need to add some additional thoughts. I think everyone did a pretty good job as far as capturing the flavor of Dayton. I worked in Dayton a little over a year ago for about 5 months as a consultant at Caresource in downtown Dayton. I had only visited Dayton once as a kid to see the air force museum. I'm from the Akron area and always felt that Dayton was sort of Akron's "twin". So I've been comparing and contrasting Akron and Dayton in my head for the past year or so now.
Anyways, there are definitely a lot of things I liked about Dayton, so much that if I had to seriously live there year-round I might be able to stand it. The things I liked downtown were mainly in the Oregon district. Thai 9 and the little coffee shop with gelato and pastries a couple doors down. I also liked Trolley Stop for blues bands. I love seeing Scottie Bratcher an amazing blues guitarist phenom along the lines of Stevie Ray Vaughn. The Irish-styled Dublin Pub across the street from Trolley Stop can also be a fun atmosphere. No one has mentioned the UD area. They have some good food choices along their newly renovated strip there. I absolutely LOVE Dewey's Pizza. Thats definitely the best pizza in Dayton. The dough is made fresh and they serve really good micro-beer on tap(I believe they had Abita on tap once). I do love the other hometown pizza of Marion's pizza but thats a different type of thing altogether. One feels transported back in time looking at all the old pics of stars that passed through Dayton in the 60s and 70's on its walls.
I personally felt most at home in Belmont and Oakwood areas. I liked shopping options on Far Hills Drive in Oakwood. But I also liked perusing the Belmont beer store with the best selection of beer I've really ever seen. The Belmont Tavern I think it was called was also like stepping back into time. Its the pool hall there that seemed very much out of a movie of dingy dirty pool halls. I had never been in anything like that before. The people were pretty nice there even though they did seem a little suspicious of me. Also in Belmont is a park with the same name. I've picked up a little habit of playing Disc Golf and they have a very good disc golf course there that I enjoyed playing because of the nice scenery and setting. I liked driving around Oakwood trying to get lost. Golfing in Oakwood was also pretty cool with their hills there.
Some other things I miss about Dayton: The Books And Co. bookstore. This is truly the coolest bookstore in the country. They have authors there every day giving lectures about their books. A must visit. El Meson was also mentioned but I feel the need to mention it again. It has the best bar in the Dayton area. I'd like to say SW OH but I definitely have no idea about Cinci. The point is they make all sorts of tropical drinks from various countries. They have amazing food. Once again I felt myself being transported out of Ohio and into Key West perhaps or Dominica. The decor and the music of the restaurant is phenomenal. I go for the amazing mojitos myself..
Nobody has mentioned Skyline Chili. Thats a chain of restaurants out of Cinci. Very different kind of cuisine. I do like it. Its basically spaghetti noodles with some meat sauce and I think something like cinnamon mixed in. Not really sure.. I suppose its a secret. To me, those are the highlights of Dayton.
Hope you're able to check most of these places out N. O. lady.